All people act in perfect accordance to their perceived reality, however, the reality perceived by two different people is rarely identical.
If the changes we make in our lives address only the surface symptoms instead of the causation of the pain, those symptoms will reappear.
For example, the issues that caused us to leave one situation (ending a relationship, switching jobs, etc.) will simply resurface in the new circumstances.
It is the addressing of issues by making surface changes, along with the existence of a conflicted state (A state judged as negative by the person experiencing it), that people label as "Drama". But, in using this term, we are invalidating someone else's personal experience.
Individuals are not always acting out just to attract attention. There is always something at the root of the behavior, and invalidating their feelings actually indicates that there is a blocked emotion within ourselves.
But this isn't really about "them"
Why?
Because by feeling that we have to somehow act against another for their actions, or by assigning a validity to the person via judgment, we see that we have our own resistance to the issue-and,what we resist persists on an energetic/vibrational level, because the Universe will responds to the *attention* (negative and positive) to the "thing".
To paraphrase the teachings of Abraham-Hicks;
" When you say yes, please, I want X; the Universe sends you X.
And when you say I want *not* X; the Universe sends you X."
This will attract more people into our lives who we label as "Drama Queens".
So, as always, the answer to removing the "drama" from our lives rests within ourselves and within our willingness to discover what is at the root of *our* prejudices and opinions.
Simply put, if we reject the Drama in others, it is because we have seen that tendency within our own psyche and dislike it there.
It can be said that the problem of dramatic people in our lives can be addressed by a surface measure, ie, ending communication with them, moving away. But unless the root of our own sensitivity is discovered, inspiring those surface measures from a place of Love and awareness (I accept you and choose not to give energy to that issue vs. I have to teach you a lesson and I dislike YOU -because you remind me too much of me and what I'm fighting to suppress in my own nature--so I'm cutting you off); there will always be another one.
If the changes we make in our lives address only the surface symptoms instead of the causation of the pain, those symptoms will reappear.
For example, the issues that caused us to leave one situation (ending a relationship, switching jobs, etc.) will simply resurface in the new circumstances.
It is the addressing of issues by making surface changes, along with the existence of a conflicted state (A state judged as negative by the person experiencing it), that people label as "Drama". But, in using this term, we are invalidating someone else's personal experience.
Individuals are not always acting out just to attract attention. There is always something at the root of the behavior, and invalidating their feelings actually indicates that there is a blocked emotion within ourselves.
But this isn't really about "them"
Why?
Because by feeling that we have to somehow act against another for their actions, or by assigning a validity to the person via judgment, we see that we have our own resistance to the issue-and,what we resist persists on an energetic/vibrational level, because the Universe will responds to the *attention* (negative and positive) to the "thing".
To paraphrase the teachings of Abraham-Hicks;
" When you say yes, please, I want X; the Universe sends you X.
And when you say I want *not* X; the Universe sends you X."
This will attract more people into our lives who we label as "Drama Queens".
So, as always, the answer to removing the "drama" from our lives rests within ourselves and within our willingness to discover what is at the root of *our* prejudices and opinions.
Simply put, if we reject the Drama in others, it is because we have seen that tendency within our own psyche and dislike it there.
It can be said that the problem of dramatic people in our lives can be addressed by a surface measure, ie, ending communication with them, moving away. But unless the root of our own sensitivity is discovered, inspiring those surface measures from a place of Love and awareness (I accept you and choose not to give energy to that issue vs. I have to teach you a lesson and I dislike YOU -because you remind me too much of me and what I'm fighting to suppress in my own nature--so I'm cutting you off); there will always be another one.
